The 1ºC per 200 m is what is considered normal, not just for Borneo.
In my area, and under my conditions, plants almost always get at least a 10-15 ºC drop at night, and highlanders are not happy at all unless night temperatures are cool. Drop is not the problem here. Some die very fast, others hang to live for years (rajah is able to do that when young). Even if temperatures go back to normal, it usually takes them a lot to recover. If its cool with no drop (rainy in winter), they also don't do as well, they somewhat slow themselfs ... and recover very fast once things go back to normal. They look somewhat in a dormant state, but perfectly ok.
Real highlanders just can't take my summers (yours are quite worse). More intermediate plants can. Maybe they are not happy in summer, maybe winters (the ones we used to have, we don't get them anymore) are a bit too cold for them and they slow for a few months, but they do great most of the year. Most lowlanders can take a bit of cold, specially if it's warm during the day, but our winters are a bit too much for them. They really only like our summers. Intermediates and highlanders will be ok as long as it doesn't freeze.
Yes, I've noticed many highlanders can take quite a lot of heat during the day if it's cold at night. Similar for lowlanders.
I had a chiller for a couple years, and when it broke for a couple days, I did loose some plants. That happened a couple times. I also lost some masdevallia.
My climate is very similar to Perth's in SW Australia, or the coast of the San Diego area in California.